3-some questionaire follow-up
Thanks for all the responses to my question. Lots of variety,
which is what makes life interesting...but I think my basic
hypothesis was confirmed.
Seems like both men and women like the idea of watching their
partners experience a same-sex encounter, and there is
some symmetry in what it would turn them on to see. Men typically
would like to see their wives eat pussy, and women would
like to see their husbands suck cock. That’s much
more common than wanting to see the partner be sucked or
licked. Perhaps that’s because you’d like
to have your partner experience something new and different,
and to do something that is familiar to you, but a new experience
for him/her.
On the other hand, I think there is asymmetry in the idea
of watching a partner with an opposite-sex third person.
Men often like the idea of seeing their partners being “slutty”,
and servicing other guys. Women are less thrilled at the
idea of seeing their men with other women, but if they do,
they are more likely to want to it to be sort of a gift for their
man, and to see him getting his own pleasure with the other
woman, rather than pleasing her.
I’m sure there are deep psychological reasons for
all this, which might be kind of interesting…but
they probably aren’t all that important. Whatever
turns you on is a turn-on, as I see it.
But it was interesting
to find out that my own turn-ons/fantasies seem to be pretty
common. (I’m hoping to meet a couple with a bi-curious
guy and voyeuristic/exhibitionistic woman, for further
research.)