RE:Do lesbian women ever just need a man?
In a word NO!
There is a distinct difference between a lesbian and a bisexual
woman.
A lesbian, even though she may have had male partners in
the past, has no need, want or desire to be physicaly intimante
with a man in any way shape or form!
A bisexual woman usually flips back and fourth from woman
to man. Sometimes frequently sometimes not.
Don't ever mistake a lesbian that identifies
with you for being intrested in you!!! I have had many lesbian
freinds that I could talk sex about and poke fun about thing
in general. They are not intrested in me but rather identify
with me. It's more like being one of the guys, for lack
of a better explination. One of my lesbian freinds was more
masculie and was the dominant partner in her relationship.
I felt the same talking sex with her as I would talking to
my best male friend.
Now I'm not saying all lesbians are masculine or are
the man in relationships. They can be just
as lady like as any other woman out there!
If you don't respect their choice then that's
fine. If you do then that's fine too. But don't
ever, even for a second, think that just because your a MAN
you can change their mind or assume that you might get to
watch or even join. This is the real world and this is a rarity
not the norm.
I'm sure that 99% of the lesbians out there just want
men to leave them alone! They wan to be accepted for who and
what they are! No more no less.