Advice needed.....
Recently I met a women at worl, a beautiful 20 YO gal. (Honestly
the most attractive women I have ever seen). I approach
things differently then most guys. I talk to them instead
of flirting with them or hitting on them till I get to know
them.
Once I started talking to her I found out from her she was
very confused with life in general (For instance she has
changed her major in college 5 times). And she is still heart
broken about the guy she dated back in high school that was
cheating on her the 3 years they were togeather.
I sent her flowers at work to cheer her up on a day she was seriously
depressed. (11 yellow roses with 1 red in the middle). She
came up to me the next day lit up like a christmas tree....
The problem was she turned around and asked me out on a date.
I turned her down cause I didn't think it was right.
I didn't intend to make her suddenly want me. She said
Your the first guy to ever send me flowers without
me having to do something to earn them first. I suddenly
felt sorry for her but still didn't go out with her.
Did I do the right thing? Going out with a women based on a
good deed is taking advantage of her in my mind. I accomplished
what I wanted by cheering her up, I didn't expect her
to ask me out though.