Do You Know Who Are You?!
This is the time to start thinking about Who You Are. This
article will help you to figure out who you are, and what
you have to offer a woman. First step: describe yourself.
What would you say? Well, a good start is a physical description.
So that's what you will do now. Get a pen and start writing.
Write a physical description of yourself. Include your
age, height, weight, physical build, and personality.
Be sure to describe who you ARE, and not who you think you
are, or who you think you should be. Build a realistic description
of who YOU are and what you represent. Be honest with yourself,
and go with your first impulses. Don't leave out your
weaknesses, but also be positive and look for your strong
points. Don't risk compromising your self-expression
and confidence by only listing out all your inadequacies
and hang-ups.
Such a list is self-defeating, whereas focusing on your
positive traits will make you feel better about who you
are; and when you feel better about yourself, you'll
feel more relaxed and confident around women, too.
Women sense this, and they'll feel good being around
you. Take a look at these questions. Answer them honestly.
1. Are you reliable, honest, funny, educated, shy or outgoing,
practical or uninhibited?
2. Do you have a large social group of friends and co-workers,
or do you like to spend time with just one or two important
people?
3.
What have your past relationships with women been like?
Who ends them? Why?
4. What is your current financial status?
5. What are your religious and political views?
6. What beliefs and values do you live by? Now, this next
group of questions is more important. You should spend
a little more time on your answers.
7. What activities do you enjoy?
8. What are you interested in?
9. What are your hobbies, if any?
10. Are you happy in your career, or would you like to learn
new skills and change jobs?
11. Who or what would you like to become?
12. If you could do anything to spend your time, what would
you choose to do?
Write this down while the ideas are spontaneous and instinctual.
Your first impulses are more likely to be the truth. The
more you think about your answers the more likely it will
be something you think you should write, not the truth.
Don't cheat yourself - you'll be using this analysis
to increase your chances of getting the woman of your dreams.
Of course, you can always go back and add more ideas to your
notes later.